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Jennifer Rose
and Bruce Sandy
Sunday
October 29, 2006
Southport Community
Building
Photos by Anne McGowan
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Jennifer and Bruce
on the Cape Fear
River waterfront
in downtown
Southport.
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Escorted by her father, David Rose, Jennifer
starts down the aisle right on schedule.
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Jennifer’s mother, Susan
Rose, sang at the wedding.
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Sweet table featured
treats to eat on the
spot and others
to take home.
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The heroes of this story don’t appear in any of the photographs. In
fact, the guests had
no reason to think that anything heroic had taken place. But an ad-hoc squad of
vendors went beyond
the call of duty to ensure that this wedding went off without a hitch.
Because of a scheduling miscommunication involving the end of
daylight-saving
time, the many vendors had less than half the time they expected to set up for the
wedding and reception.
As the relieved bride recalled a few days later, “Given the
amount of set-up
necessary, this would never have normally been possible.” But all the vendors, even
those who expected
just to drop off their products and leave, “stayed to handle the crisis.”
Jennifer herself does graphic and floral design. She couldn’t
say enough to
praise “the experience and professionalism of the vendors and their extreme
willingness to help in any
way possible.”
“As brides, we hear so many horror stories,” she commented.
She wants other
brides to know how the pros can “avert the horror.”
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Jennifer Rose is from Ravenna, Ohio, a county seat town near Cleveland.
She came
to North Carolina to work on a master’s in creative writing at UNC-Wilmington.
She met Bruce Sandy, a Wilmington native, in the course of
business.
“I hired him to work on my computer.”
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Danny and Susan Danek
of Danny’s Pastry Shoppe delivered and set up the cake, but in Jennifer’s words “ended
up doing flower arrangements.” Huge wooden boxes had to be filled with blossoms and greenery. “Danny and
my father loaded all those flowers.”
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Atlantic Quest Catering's
staff dropped off beer, wine, ice and linens, then were supposed to go back to
Wilmington to change
clothes and pick up the food. Instead, they stayed and pitched in: Iced down drinks,
organized
placecards, “set all the tables, and folded the napkins with a poem tucked in.” A.Q.
Manager Pete
Daniel brought the food and his staff’s uniforms.
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Roxanne Thompson
of Island Florals took command, acting as ringmaster and drill sergeant, rounding up
groomsmen to help set tables, haul equipment and organize seating. “She is the reason
they got there when they did,” Jennifer said.
Anne McGowan
was with Jennifer, photographing her preparations for her wedding, when the bride got
word of the scheduling problem. “I found out about it, and I lost it,” Jennifer
admits.
She credits Anne with calming her down. “She was so cool. She was great.”

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Jennifer designed the programs and her mother sewed the table runners. Favors were
fishing lures,
wrapped in an antiqued map of Southport.
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Greenery, driftwood,
and other natural materials were used to decorate
the reception hall. Contrary to the best laid plans, the caterer’s staff and the
pastry chef volunteered to help. “The wait staff was unloading van-fulls of
flowers,” Jennifer said. Just an hour after the vendors got started, she said,
“When I arrived, everything was in its place.”
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The bride did the decorating and floral design through her business, Salt Harbor Designs.
But rather than attend to every detail herself, she enlisted Island Florals by Roxanne to help.
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An old rowboat was filled with ice to hold beer. Originally assigned to the groomsmen,
this
task was handled on the fly by Atlantic Quest’s catering team.
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The father of the bride’s hobbies include woodworking, and he built the benches
for his daughter’s wedding. They are now available through a local party-rental
firm.
Jennifer wanted
to share her story to assure other brides “that if they choose vendors whose
reputations precede them, their event will succeed even in the face of crisis.”
Well-wishers with sparklers send Bruce and Jennifer on their way after what she
called a ‘wildly successful’ evening.
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