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   Traditions about responsibility for wedding costs are changing. The longstanding custom of the bride’s family paying for most of the wedding can certainly be modified to suit the preferences, and resources, of the bridal couple and their families. Here is the traditional division of expenses. (SEE budget worksheet)
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The bride's family | The bride | The groom's family | The groom | Attendants & ushers
 
Bride’s Family
  • Entire cost of ceremony, including facility, music, flowers and decorations.
  • Entire cost of reception, including hall, food, beverages, cake, flowers and music.
  • Bride’s wedding attire and trousseau.
  • Invitations, announcements, postage.
  • Engagement and wedding photographs.
  • Bridesmaids’ bouquets.
  • Bridal party transportation.
  • Wedding consultant.
Bride
  • Groom’s wedding ring.
  • Gifts for groom, bride’s attendants.
  • Personal stationery.
  • Bridesmaids’ luncheon.
Groom’s Family
  • Own wedding attire.
  • Rehearsal dinner.
Groom
  • Bride’s engagement and wedding rings.
  • Marriage license.
  • Gifts for bride, best man and ushers.
  • Bridal bouquet; boutonnieres.
  • Mothers’ corsages.
  • Fee for clergy or officiant.
  • Honeymoon.
Attendants & Ushers
  • Own wedding attire.
  • Parties for bride and groom.
 
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