Non-denominational church service
   Some churches won't perform wedding ceremonies for non-members. Others will do so if the couple agrees to participate in counseling with the minister beforehand. These counseling sessions vary in intensity and number of sessions depending on the denomination, church, and/or minister. Nonmembers can usually expect to pay higher fees for use of the church.
   For a couple who truly need a non-denominational service, it may be helpful to look for "non-denominational" under the "Churches" listing in a classified directory such as the Yellow Pages. If the issue is families with widely differing religious preferences, give some consideration to which denominations could be acceptable to both families. Call these churches to inquire about their policies, fees, if they have the capacity to handle the number of guests you expect, and whether they are available on your wedding date.
   Other concerns are location, parking, proximity to the reception site, and do you find the church esthetically appealing. Once you have viewed several prospects, consider attending a church service. This will give you a chance to get to know the minister. It's very important to have a good rapport with the person who's instrumental in one of the most important events of your lives. (Directory of clergy advertisers)

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