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Bride-to-be showered with gifts

 
   The bridal shower is a traditional celebration that allows friends and family to show their affection and "shower" the bride with gifts. The shower occurs from two months to two weeks before the wedding, and can be anything from an informal luncheon at the office to a buffet dinner in an elegant restaurant.
    Anyone who wants to "do something" for the bride may give her a shower, even a group of two or three friends can act as co-hostesses. One rule is that immediate family members (mothers, sisters, mothers-in-law) should not give showers because it appears that the family is soliciting gifts.
    The hostess can set the limit on the number of guests since she will be paying the bill. No one should be invited to the shower who has not been invited to the wedding, or who does not know the couple.
    One of the bride's responsibilities, as far as her shower goes, is to provide the hostess with a guest list and to make sure that she hasn't placed a financial burden on someone by inviting them to more than one or two showers. She should also send a written note of thanks to her guests for any presents received, as well as to the hostess(es) for their hospitality.

   Shower themes can be fun and useful. Some unique shower ideas are:
   Home repair shower: guests bring useful tools for the bride and groom.
   Recipe shower: each guest is given a recipe card and fills in a favorite dish.
   Christmas shower: each guests brings a Christmas tree ornament that will adorn the couples' first Christmas tree.
    Gift shops can assist you in planning a themed shower so gifts aren't repeated and they'll be more than happy to assist with creative ideas.
 
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